Signs and Symptoms of ADHD in Girls

Not all girls with ADHD will exhibit all of the following signs and symptoms. Conversely, having one or two of these does not equal an ADHD diagnosis in and of itself. However, if your daughter seems to exhibit a few of these symptoms on a continual basis, a discussion with an experienced professional may be beneficial.

• Appears withdrawn

• Cries easily

• Daydreaming and in a world of her own

• Difficulty maintaining focus; easily distracted

• Disorganized and messy (in her appearance and physical space)

• Doesn’t appear to be trying

• Doesn’t seem motivated

• Forgetful

• Highly sensitive to noise, fabrics, and emotions

• Hyper-talkative (always has lots to say, but is not good at listening)

• Hyperreactivity (exaggerated emotional responses)

• Looks to be making "careless" mistakes

• Might often slam her doors shut

• Often late (poor time management)

• Problems completing tasks

• Seems shy

• Seems to get easily upset

• Shifting focus from one activity to another

• Takes time to process information and directions; seems like she doesn't hear you

• Verbally impulsive; blurts out and interrupts others

Seeking Help

If ADHD is diagnosed, it can be treated and managed. Interventions can be put in place, including behavior management techniques, organizational strategies, medication, counseling, and support.

Simply knowing she has ADHD can relieve a girl of a huge burden of guilt and shame. It can also free her from the damaging labels of being “spacey,” “unmotivated,” “stupid,” or “lazy.” She is none of those things; she simply has ADHD. Strategies can be put in place to make life a little easier and her future much brighter.